I broke NC. Having a talk tomorrow

[JoeMarron]

I kept up NC for a bit but we were both on the same night out with about 10 mutual friends. I intended to give her no attention this night, but she came to me and spoke, danced with me, where I had been talking with others. Since then we have been talking again.
So my no contact wasn't really no contact it was more like no initiating meets, or texting first. But it lasted 5 days, and she said she misses me 2 days ago and asked to see me. We went for food, a drive and had sex (it was the first time in about 5 weeks), and we did this today also. I'm finding it a lot easier as I was getting over her until she text. I am now not letting myself get feelings for her, I definitely won't tell her I love her again or anything like that, although she's said it yesterday, I just ignored it.
I know my problem the last time was being too available and my oneitis for her. So I've also been speaking to other women, not went out with anyone else yet though. She's saying things as if she wants me to say I love her, putting herself down and fishing for compliments etc. I have tried to just avoid anything like that and just carry on like it is. I'd like some advice on not getting oneitis so bad again and appearing as AFC is I was a few weeks back.

She asked me to stay at her house when her parents are away next week.
I'm unsure on what to do until then. How many times should I see her in the next 9 days until then.
Don't know whether I should initiate the next meet or not.
I'm also wondering what to do about the non stop text thing. She's started to text me a lot again and I do always reply, not boring, I'm funny, but is it recommended to cut this down, and only text a couple of times a day?

Do you see what you did OP? When you stopped acting like she's your only reason for living and texting her every 5 seconds her interest went up. This is the dynamic you should have throughout the entire relationship. Never put in more work that she is. If she gets distant you get even more distant. If you would've read and applied the damn bible you would've never gotten in this situation. Read http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/. Read..as a matter of fact read the whole damn blog http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/. And read http://therationalmale.com/.

 

[mikey2012]

Pay attention because this is important: The second you fear losing a woman is the second you become her slave.

Got it? You can't have power in a relationship where you are AFRAID of losing the girl. It turns you into a b!tch and you lose that masculine attitude of strength and courage that women find so appealing. NO WOMAN WANTS A MAN WHO IS WEAKER THAN HER.

Men need to learn that becoming deeply bonded with a woman EMOTIONALLY is the vary thing that makes her lose respect and attraction for him. A man in love is a weak, passive faggot.

VIDEO --> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps

Women HATE passive faggots.

Harsh but true.

 

[mikey2012]

To continue... This is what happens when you don't respect yourself!

What are the basics of SoSuave? Read fvcking Book of Pook and remind yourself of the lessons.

RESPECT IS ALL. The bytch must respect you and you must make her respect you! If she disrespects you, you grab your balls and stand up for yourself! You are THE PRIZE, remember?!

But hey, how can you expect a bytch to respect you, if you don't even respect YOURSELF?


WTF is this attitude?!?!?! "I'm worthless and she's a goddess..." The moment you catch yourself holding such beta thoughts, you should go find a rope and hang yourself. It's either that or you kick yourself in the butt and get real angry and eliminate those chump thoughts. Life is a fvcking battlefield, you either sink or swim, you either eat or get eaten. Other people are trying to get you down, your own thoughts are trying to get you down, your own emotions are trying to get you down, random events are trying to get you down.... LIFE ITSELF is trying to get you down!!
So pick up your goddamn sword and fight, instead of letting the enemy squash you like a fvcking ****roach.... Like I said, if you are not gonna do that, then just go and KILL YOURSELF, coz it's the same thing! Either the world kills you or you kill yourself, makes no fvckin difference... The only alternative to that, is to be a man and fight! So make your choice!

Harsh but true

 

[mikey2012]

I could barely get through that one. Sighed a few times, shook my head a few more. Just shook my head again.

Dude get some razors and slash your wrists.

 

[mikey2012]

I kept up NC for a bit but we were both on the same night out with about 10 mutual friends. I intended to give her no attention this night, but she came to me and spoke, danced with me, where I had been talking with others. Since then we have been talking again.
So my no contact wasn't really no contact it was more like no initiating meets, or texting first. But it lasted 5 days, and she said she misses me 2 days ago and asked to see me. We went for food, a drive and had sex (it was the first time in about 5 weeks), and we did this today also. I'm finding it a lot easier as I was getting over her until she text. I am now not letting myself get feelings for her, I definitely won't tell her I love her again or anything like that, although she's said it yesterday, I just ignored it.
I know my problem the last time was being too available and my oneitis for her. So I've also been speaking to other women, not went out with anyone else yet though. She's saying things as if she wants me to say I love her, putting herself down and fishing for compliments etc. I have tried to just avoid anything like that and just carry on like it is. I'd like some advice on not getting oneitis so bad again and appearing as AFC is I was a few weeks back.

She asked me to stay at her house when her parents are away next week.
I'm unsure on what to do until then. How many times should I see her in the next 9 days until then.
Don't know whether I should initiate the next meet or not.
I'm also wondering what to do about the non stop text thing. She's started to text me a lot again and I do always reply, not boring, I'm funny, but is it recommended to cut this down, and only text a couple of times a day?

This dude is trolling...