"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yea if anyone read my post before about some chick that practices with my tennis team, its about that again. Just wanna know, is it ever a good idea to message a girl on myspace after not saying anything to her in person? I won't see her again til monday and I dont wanna wait that long. I added her on myspace before I found out she played tennis. Sooo....good idea? Or b!tch move?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone?? Just lookin for a yes or no...
 
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I think one of the lamest things guys do is meet a girl and then message her right away on facebook or myspace or whatever. Totally weak. And it would be especially creepy if you've seen her/practiced with her and never talked to her in person but talked to her online.

I didn't read your other post, but if she practices with your tennis team just chat her up and get her number.
 
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Yea thanks. I was thinking the same thing. I keep b1tching out though. Practice is early in the morning and my confidence is down the drain then. Once I open her up I should be fine though. Im so tired of being this way. I need to start approaching asap.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just forget about talking to her for a few days. Just let a situation come up where you don't feel rushed. You are going to see her a few times again during practice right? In fact, being cool and acting confident and social as in standing out in the group setting without acknowledging her directly will probably help.
 
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Chrom3y said:
Yea thanks. I was thinking the same thing. I keep b1tching out though. Practice is early in the morning and my confidence is down the drain then. Once I open her up I should be fine though. Im so tired of being this way. I need to start approaching asap.
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I hear you bro. Do some push-ups and wake yourself up in the morning so you can feel more confident. Even if you don't feel confident, just do it man!

You can message her on myspace, I've done some successful pick-ups with girls I never met before. You just have to play it right. It's still better to meet them in person because it makes everything easier on myspace.
 
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