Yea if anyone read my post before about some chick that practices with my tennis team, its about that again. Just wanna know, is it ever a good idea to message a girl on myspace after not saying anything to her in person? I won't see her again til monday and I dont wanna wait that long. I added her on myspace before I found out she played tennis. Sooo....good idea? Or b!tch move?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I B!tched out again...lol?
- Thread starter Chrom3y
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think one of the lamest things guys do is meet a girl and then message her right away on facebook or myspace or whatever. Totally weak. And it would be especially creepy if you've seen her/practiced with her and never talked to her in person but talked to her online.
I didn't read your other post, but if she practices with your tennis team just chat her up and get her number.
I didn't read your other post, but if she practices with your tennis team just chat her up and get her number.
Yea thanks. I was thinking the same thing. I keep b1tching out though. Practice is early in the morning and my confidence is down the drain then. Once I open her up I should be fine though. Im so tired of being this way. I need to start approaching asap.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Just forget about talking to her for a few days. Just let a situation come up where you don't feel rushed. You are going to see her a few times again during practice right? In fact, being cool and acting confident and social as in standing out in the group setting without acknowledging her directly will probably help.
I hear you bro. Do some push-ups and wake yourself up in the morning so you can feel more confident. Even if you don't feel confident, just do it man!Chrom3y said:Yea thanks. I was thinking the same thing. I keep b1tching out though. Practice is early in the morning and my confidence is down the drain then. Once I open her up I should be fine though. Im so tired of being this way. I need to start approaching asap.
You can message her on myspace, I've done some successful pick-ups with girls I never met before. You just have to play it right. It's still better to meet them in person because it makes everything easier on myspace.