Yea if anyone read my post before about some chick that practices with my tennis team, its about that again. Just wanna know, is it ever a good idea to message a girl on myspace after not saying anything to her in person? I won't see her again til monday and I dont wanna wait that long. I added her on myspace before I found out she played tennis. Sooo....good idea? Or b!tch move?
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I think one of the lamest things guys do is meet a girl and then message her right away on facebook or myspace or whatever. Totally weak. And it would be especially creepy if you've seen her/practiced with her and never talked to her in person but talked to her online.
I didn't read your other post, but if she practices with your tennis team just chat her up and get her number.
I didn't read your other post, but if she practices with your tennis team just chat her up and get her number.
Yea thanks. I was thinking the same thing. I keep b1tching out though. Practice is early in the morning and my confidence is down the drain then. Once I open her up I should be fine though. Im so tired of being this way. I need to start approaching asap.
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Just forget about talking to her for a few days. Just let a situation come up where you don't feel rushed. You are going to see her a few times again during practice right? In fact, being cool and acting confident and social as in standing out in the group setting without acknowledging her directly will probably help.
I hear you bro. Do some push-ups and wake yourself up in the morning so you can feel more confident. Even if you don't feel confident, just do it man!Chrom3y said:Yea thanks. I was thinking the same thing. I keep b1tching out though. Practice is early in the morning and my confidence is down the drain then. Once I open her up I should be fine though. Im so tired of being this way. I need to start approaching asap.
You can message her on myspace, I've done some successful pick-ups with girls I never met before. You just have to play it right. It's still better to meet them in person because it makes everything easier on myspace.