"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

I attract the mad ones

S

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
I thought maybe it was a one off... How I was wrong.

They confide in me, complain to me, sulk, be irrational.

Then when I console them, they listen for a bit, then they take a turn and start arguing with me....


Its not that I've said something wrong, they just turn on me...

Quick responses and help appreciated because its happening right now over texts, and this is like the 5th girl the same thing has happened with......
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

E

Entity Unknown

New Member
Joined
Dec 4, 2008
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Balance.

You are not a doormat (Unless you let yourself be one)

Instead of being their emotional tampon, rather let them know that you're a guy with a lot to offer and you are interested in more than just listening to their problems (If this indeed your intentions)

And if they "turn" on you when you confide in them, then instead of pointing this out to us, why don't you try point this out to them?

Change is a decision away, so decide to stop being a doormat, and start being the prize.
 
O

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
Like attracts like.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top