"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

I attract the mad ones

S

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
I thought maybe it was a one off... How I was wrong.

They confide in me, complain to me, sulk, be irrational.

Then when I console them, they listen for a bit, then they take a turn and start arguing with me....


Its not that I've said something wrong, they just turn on me...

Quick responses and help appreciated because its happening right now over texts, and this is like the 5th girl the same thing has happened with......
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

E

Entity Unknown

New Member
Joined
Dec 4, 2008
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Balance.

You are not a doormat (Unless you let yourself be one)

Instead of being their emotional tampon, rather let them know that you're a guy with a lot to offer and you are interested in more than just listening to their problems (If this indeed your intentions)

And if they "turn" on you when you confide in them, then instead of pointing this out to us, why don't you try point this out to them?

Change is a decision away, so decide to stop being a doormat, and start being the prize.
 
O

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
Like attracts like.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top