You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"I have a pathetic excuse for a penis and I thought you'd do me the honour of laughing at it."matygee said:she asks me to tell her one good reason why she should give it to me?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is gold.Francisco d'Anconia said:"Because we both know that you want to."
This is great; i cant improve upon it. I much prefer upping the ****iness level to you instead of a more reactive response (that disempowers you IMO) like godless listed.Francisco d'Anconia said:"Because we both know that you want to."
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'd go with thisone.John_Galt said:"I have a pathetic excuse for a penis and I thought you'd do me the honour of laughing at it."
Very good point!azanon said:This is great; i cant improve upon it. I much prefer upping the ****iness level to you instead of a more reactive response (that disempowers you IMO) like godless listed...
I have to disagree.musclyjerk said:Firstly, you're asking for her e-mail address. No offence but do you know how pathetic that sounds when you could of asked for her number? Unfortunately it shows you don't have balls
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.