I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, very strange how she got interested..Thomas94305 said:That is a good thing to experiment with VerySuave...
Evidently, the pretty gal had eyes for you. A female friend told me how gals will intentionally hold IOIs, and even break dates just so they don't seem too "easy"..lol. I said if you don't want to seem easy, don't have sex right away. But, have enough character to keep the date.
Anyhow, experiment with it, and let us know how it progresses. You got some response from the pretty gal. Now, amplify it with some C&F, charm, etc. And, go from there.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thomas94305 said:A female friend told me how gals will intentionally hold IOIs, and even break dates just so they don't seem too "easy"..lol.
How often? LOL.. every time they DON'T IOI me.. caz every gal wants meverysuave said:Really?????? HOLD IOIs? never heard of this before... how often does this happen to you? hmmmm
all the time, until u give them a strong pimphand. then they gon practically beg u to F themverysuave said:Really?????? HOLD IOIs? never heard of this before... how often does this happen to you? hmmmm