That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah, very strange how she got interested..Thomas94305 said:That is a good thing to experiment with VerySuave...
Evidently, the pretty gal had eyes for you. A female friend told me how gals will intentionally hold IOIs, and even break dates just so they don't seem too "easy"..lol. I said if you don't want to seem easy, don't have sex right away. But, have enough character to keep the date.
Anyhow, experiment with it, and let us know how it progresses. You got some response from the pretty gal. Now, amplify it with some C&F, charm, etc. And, go from there.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thomas94305 said:A female friend told me how gals will intentionally hold IOIs, and even break dates just so they don't seem too "easy"..lol.
How often? LOL.. every time they DON'T IOI me.. caz every gal wants meverysuave said:Really?????? HOLD IOIs? never heard of this before... how often does this happen to you? hmmmm
all the time, until u give them a strong pimphand. then they gon practically beg u to F themverysuave said:Really?????? HOLD IOIs? never heard of this before... how often does this happen to you? hmmmm