"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i ask for this ugly chicks number at work
- Thread starter verysuave
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Kev07
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Thomas94305
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Evidently, the pretty gal had eyes for you. A female friend told me how gals will intentionally hold IOIs, and even break dates just so they don't seem too "easy"..lol. I said if you don't want to seem easy, don't have sex right away. But, have enough character to keep the date.
Anyhow, experiment with it, and let us know how it progresses. You got some response from the pretty gal. Now, amplify it with some C&F, charm, etc. And, go from there.
Yeah, very strange how she got interested..Thomas94305 said:
Maybe she's thinking.. "if my ugly friend can get some from this guy, then so can i" kinda thing.
I think it kinda applies for me too.. whenever I see a cute chick with some ugly,boring, uninteresting dude, I feel like I can do better , feel better about myself and the qualities i have.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thomas94305
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How often? LOL.. every time they DON'T IOI me.. caz every gal wants meverysuave said:
Dunno, would have to read minds to answer you, I never got that one down:cuss:
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all the time, until u give them a strong pimphand. then they gon practically beg u to F themverysuave said: