"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i ask for this ugly chicks number at work
- Thread starter verysuave
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kev07
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Thomas94305
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Evidently, the pretty gal had eyes for you. A female friend told me how gals will intentionally hold IOIs, and even break dates just so they don't seem too "easy"..lol. I said if you don't want to seem easy, don't have sex right away. But, have enough character to keep the date.
Anyhow, experiment with it, and let us know how it progresses. You got some response from the pretty gal. Now, amplify it with some C&F, charm, etc. And, go from there.
Yeah, very strange how she got interested..Thomas94305 said:
Maybe she's thinking.. "if my ugly friend can get some from this guy, then so can i" kinda thing.
I think it kinda applies for me too.. whenever I see a cute chick with some ugly,boring, uninteresting dude, I feel like I can do better , feel better about myself and the qualities i have.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
How often? LOL.. every time they DON'T IOI me.. caz every gal wants meverysuave said:
Dunno, would have to read minds to answer you, I never got that one down:cuss:
Bigfatasspimp
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all the time, until u give them a strong pimphand. then they gon practically beg u to F themverysuave said: