I approached a HB 10-much calmer approach and better

[Stephen89]

I saw this stunning English smartly dressed women who is in her early to mid 20s.

I just saw two guys approach her before me and she walked off saying something, so definitely a 10/10.

I decided to approach.

I socialised before hand, I was much much more calmer and animated.

I approached from the side, tapped her on the shoulder

Then faced her, I calmly approached and said "hey, I just saw you and just had to say hello to you".

She walked off, politely saying "hello", she didn't blow me out, politely said it and politely walked away.

Much much better, the key is the calmness and conviction in the approach, communication.

 

[Stephen89]

Approach her from the front and don't touch her.


You should really work on how to open a conversation, because this one is lame af.

Also, don't put stupid ratings ('HB10') in the title of your thread. Just say 'attractive woman' because your relative ratings are basically useless for reference unless you post a photo of the tart you're approaching and that would be inadvisable.

Thank you for the insights bud.

 

[pipeman84]

That's creepy and demeaning AF.
Would you do the same with a smartly dressed man, expecting him to give you some change?
Because basically that's what you're doing ... begging girls for their attention.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

OK, that's great...next step is now the better approaches need to start leading to better results.

If the results aren't improving, then it's not really any better.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Stephen,
In this Country and I suspect England too,you can't even hold eye contact without the risk of her shouting harrassment to the Gendarmes....To touch a Woman is Assault,you could be before a Magistrate!

 

[Machine10033]

Why not just initiate a convo…. When I found this site in the early 2000’s I would go out and just talk to humans…. Walking up and sheepishly saying hi…. And watching her walk away really does nothing. If you engage in conversation for however brief I think you will get much comfortable faster.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Problem with beautiful women is that they expect men to be a certain way around them

saying things like " I had too talk to you " instantly categorises you as low value and from there , there is virtually no coming back

If I had seen two guys previously approach her I would just walk over and say something like

"hey what did say too scare those 2 poor boys away"

She Will likely find it amusing but more importantly you've broken the ice without being submissive or weird

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Stephen,
Unless you are at least an eight yourself and of a similar social class what is the point of approaching such a classy Woman?....If you are an eight why do you need to?

 

[SW15]

This is a lousy approach from a technique standpoint. If you plan to approach someone, add value. If you opened with a meaningful insight about her, you could have sparked a meaningful interaction ending with a date offer.

At the very least, a good opener could have gotten you a 15-60 second interaction (not long enough to offer a date) but still better than a 1-2 second interaction.

 

[Stephen89]

Hi Stephen,
Unless you are at least an eight yourself and of a similar social class what is the point of approaching such a classy Woman?....If you are an eight why do you need to?

I'm definitely an 8. I have quiet a lot going for me. I work out, groom myself well, have a standard height, wear nice, trendy clothes.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Stephen,
So why do you need to cold approach?....Believe me gaining the attention of a Woman at a higher metier than yourself is one of lifes greatest follies.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

NPD much?

 

[Stephen89]

Hi Stephen,
So why do you need to cold approach?....Believe me gaining the attention of a Woman at a higher metier than yourself is one of lifes greatest follies.

I did say I'm an 8, however with everything else, I'd say I'm 8.5.

I did get some eye context from other younger women that day, which I hesitated opening up a conversation.

 

[Stephen89]

I did see a few 7s go with a 9 women that day. Maybe they had a bit of alpha about them.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Problem with beautiful women is that they expect men to be a certain way around them

Next, we'll be learning that you can't behave like a waiter at Denny's, if you want to serve in The C Suites at Goldman Sachs

 

[typical]

I did see a few 7s go with a 9 women that day. Maybe they had a bit of alpha about them.

Stephen, you’ve been on this forum since 2016 and are still doing beginner “bootcamp” trainings ???

It’s been 8 years you shouldn’t be using a number rating system at all, for yourself or them.

If you’re looking at becoming a better conversationalist then this is not the correct way of going about it.

What are you looking to achieve here ?? Just sex with plenty of beautiful women or something more ?? What is your purpose ??

 

[The Duke]

I saw this stunning English smartly dressed women who is in her early to mid 20s.

I just saw two guys approach her before me and she walked off saying something, so definitely a 10/10.

I decided to approach.

I socialised before hand, I was much much more calmer and animated.

I approached from the side, tapped her on the shoulder

Then faced her, I calmly approached and said "hey, I just saw you and just had to say hello to you".

She walked off, politely saying "hello", she didn't blow me out, politely said it and politely walked away.

Much much better, the key is the calmness and conviction in the approach, communication.

I'd of said...statistics say for every 3 guys that approaches a girl, the first two get rejected and the 3rd one gets her number! Say it in a clever/funny tone and she will smile. Introduce yourself, ask her name and expand on that topic or start another one.

If its intimidating to strike up conversations with women, then go sit at your local bar, have a few drinks, and talk to anybody and everybody. Get creative. Spend sometime before you go thinking up interesting things.

Perhaps observe others and learn from them first.

 

[RickTheToad]

I saw this stunning English smartly dressed women who is in her early to mid 20s.

I just saw two guys approach her before me and she walked off saying something, so definitely a 10/10.

I decided to approach.

I socialised before hand, I was much much more calmer and animated.

I approached from the side, tapped her on the shoulder

Then faced her, I calmly approached and said "hey, I just saw you and just had to say hello to you".

She walked off, politely saying "hello", she didn't blow me out, politely said it and politely walked away.

Much much better, the key is the calmness and conviction in the approach, communication.

Well, I guess it's better then saying, Hello, are you tired? She'll say why? You respond, because you've been running around and around in my head.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Well, I guess it's better then saying, Hello, are you tired? She'll say why? You respond, because you've been running around and around in my head.

And then she will say...

"Is your refrigerator running?"

And he'll say "Yeah..."

And then she'll say "Well you better go catch it and stop chasing after me..."

 

[RickTheToad]

You're so smooth, Rick.

I'm a toad after all...

And then she will say...

"Is your refrigerator running?"

And he'll say "Yeah..."

And then she'll say "Well you better go catch it and stop chasing after me..."

That's a good one...