"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I approached 8 girls in 2 days. Ask me anything!

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I'm like a natural, I don't use lines. I just survey the area and make the approach so ask me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I pick a day. Then I go to places like Walmart or Shopping mall. And I try to make several approaches a day. I don't have a quota but generally until I am comfortable. But I don't hit on random girls, I find a girl that I like and I approach her...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are these warm or cold approaches?
 

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I pick a day. Then I go to places like Walmart or Shopping mall. And I try to make several approaches a day. I don't have a quota but generally until I am comfortable. But I don't hit on random girls, I find a girl that I like and I approach her...
Interesting. How many numbers/dates? I never knew if it was socially acceptable to approach girls in places like libraries, cafeterias, or stores.
 

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I used to think that girls give out phone numbers. But apparently they don't when I did it. Otherwise, my social proof shot through the roof
 

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Were they cows?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I used to think that girls give out phone numbers. But apparently they don't when I did it. Otherwise, my social proof shot through the roof
So Daygame is cool, but they didn’t give out their numbers? Did you get a Snapchat or something?
 
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