"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am very confused, please help out.

TheKidd

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Hi,

I'm a senior in a Florida high school and I asked an underclass girl (11th grade) out to the prom which is in June. She said it was too sudden that I asked her and that she was surprised. She said to give her some time to think about it. It has been more than a month since I asked her, and we still talk sometimes and smile at each other. However, she has said nothing about my asking her to the prom. I'm growing a little impatient. What's happening here? Will her answer be more of a yes than a no? Any advice would be grateful.

Mike A
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Paid Laid & Made

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Confident. Plus, asking a chick to Prom 7 months ahead seems well ... DESPERATE. U might have a GF by then ... things change and so do people.
 

Smooth as Anything

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You asked her seven months in advance. Care to know the reality of the situtation (which is what I'm known for helping people realize)?

She wants something better. She wants to keep her options open.

She doesn't want to be stuck with you, when in 5 months -- Prince Charming is going to come and ask her to the Prom...but she doesn't have the guts to drop you for him, and she knows it.

Sucks doesn't it? That's what happens when you aren't Prince Charming.

If you think what I just said was false... Go write some poetry.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'll probably find a prom date 2 weeks beforehand, not 7 months
 

blienk

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You ask a girl 7 months ahead of time when you want to get married, not go the freakin' prom.

I know some schools like to get into these things early, but wait until at least late March.
 
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