I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Quit drinking.i did tinder dates in the past but my D couldnt go up up up even with hot women
I dont drink. you probably mean "start drinking"?Quit drinking.
Not if you wanna get it up. If your a male under 40 and don't drink, yet you still have problems getting it up... I'd go see a doctor.. Maybe your testosterone is under 300... get some cheap viagra.I dont drink. you probably mean "start drinking"?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i have very weird kinksNot if you wanna get it up. If your a male under 40 and don't drink, yet you still have problems getting it up... I'd go see a doctor.. Maybe your testosterone is under 300... get some cheap viagra.
Deadlift 300 and get back to mei have very weird kinks
Working out makes you a better person. You set goals, you achieve them, you feel better about yourself.Deadlift 300 and get back to me
why you call other men "sweetheart"?Working out makes you a better person. You set goals, you achieve them, you feel better about yourself.
Just try it, sweetheart
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Man talk, sweetheart.why you call other men "sweetheart"?
i talk to my mom regularlySee how many women you can talk to this week and get back to me.
If the number is zero, fvck it try again.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I mean, you're funny some of the time. But fvck you. Stop acting like you want to fvck. You don'ti talk to my mom regularly
DUDE i aint no homo. just that eventually i became less desperate-like for sex with women.. and more eunuch-like..You've already posted about fvcking men
I mean, as long as you go raw and sperm in them? Should cut off your genes...DUDE i aint no homo. just that eventually i became less desperate-like for sex with women.. and more eunuch-like..
thats why i go on NOFAP
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.