“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I arranged a date with this bird over the phone. Before we spoke she said "Listen I just want to be honest and say I am not looking for a relationship but I do want to meet you"

How would you percieve this when a woman says that ? other then she might just want a shag without strings attached ???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by englishcrap
she might just want a shag without strings attached ???
Either that, or she's just been "damaged" by a nasty break-up with someone else and doesn't want to re-involve too soon.

Or she IS looking for a relationship and doesn't know what the hell she wants. (this is always a possibility worth considering :p )
 

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Translation:"I'm really attracted to you bad... and I don't like it... I'm scared... scared I'll be hurt again"

She not opposed to a relationship but not one where she gets used like a tampon and discarded.
 

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Originally posted by englishcrap
other then she might just want a shag without strings attached ???
I was wondering abt the same thing since im not looking for a relationship.

Girl: Im not looking for a relationship
Me: Do you say that subjectively or objectively ? :eek:

Because when I say that im being objective ...but who knows what exactly they mean damn womans! :mad:
 

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I figure it's cause she doesn't want to make you think that you're gonna become her boyfriend before she sees you in person and sizes you up one on one. AFter that, if she likes you in person, her tune will change.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by englishcrap
I arranged a date with this bird over the phone. Before we spoke she said "Listen I just want to be honest and say I am not looking for a relationship but I do want to meet you"

How would you percieve this when a woman says that ? other then she might just want a shag without strings attached ???
If your game is on par it doesnt ever matter what the hell she meant. There are a million things she could have meant, she could have not meant anything and just wanted to make sure you keep her on your mind. Who knows, the question you need to be asking yourself is what do you want out of this. That is what being a man is, the world is yours. Forget what game she is trying to throw at you stratagize the type of game you are planning on throwing at her!
 

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Exactly - what Royal Elite said.

Don't worry what she says to you... womenoften say one thing and do another.
 

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Yes the comment means nothing.

In my experience it has basically been used after the girl has just gotten out of a LTR.

You play your cards right, she'll still be yours.

Find out sometime subtely about her past relationships/where the guy is/the status.
 

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Originally posted by englishcrap
I arranged a date with this bird over the phone. Before we spoke she said "Listen I just want to be honest and say I am not looking for a relationship but I do want to meet you"

How would you percieve this when a woman says that ? other then she might just want a shag without strings attached ???
don't even listen to this comment. Just keep doing what you want to do with her.

I have friends who just reply with, "ok good I just want some fun anyway"

It seems to work with them
 
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