You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, something like that. It is like a house divided on floors with shares spaces. So even if I am backing off there is a chance that we will bump up somewhere accidentally.
Man you dropped the ball here. Why did you want to wait a couple of days to see if she's playing a "game"? She was bold enough to ask you straight up what you were looking for and you weren't straight up with her. You said it yourself in your post "To be clear here I am cool with just having sex with her". You should of told her that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah, but at the same time when I was persistent enough she was selling me BS like "I am not ready, lets wait a couple of days and so on". I made it clear what I want while she was still playing her game man. It might be due to the fact that she is still 21 yo shy girl. But I know that those girls could be such a *****s when they want. I am kinda cold down now and will see her actions, anyway I am cool now approaching other girls around.
You were right man. Got laid yesterday.
How much time did it take?
4 dates
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I thought you got laid by stop responding/talking to her.
Yes, that is right. But it took her to stop playing less time that I expected.
