"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am NEVER doing online dating again

Kuhlraum

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Wiesman44 said:
Dude, go to hotornot.com. Post a pic, and watch every UGLY chick in a 100 mile radius request to me you. Its gross.

HotorNot used to be good about 5 years ago. Now it is nothing but heffers and trannies on there. Any decent looking girls are either a fake picture or only looking to get rated.

I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kuhlraum said:
I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
liar. you closed the window cuz you were wasting time on a fatty, admit it.
 
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