Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I am NEVER doing online dating again

Kuhlraum

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Wiesman44 said:
Dude, go to hotornot.com. Post a pic, and watch every UGLY chick in a 100 mile radius request to me you. Its gross.

HotorNot used to be good about 5 years ago. Now it is nothing but heffers and trannies on there. Any decent looking girls are either a fake picture or only looking to get rated.

I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scrumtulescence

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Kuhlraum said:
I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
liar. you closed the window cuz you were wasting time on a fatty, admit it.
 
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