"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am NEVER doing online dating again

Kuhlraum

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Wiesman44 said:
Dude, go to hotornot.com. Post a pic, and watch every UGLY chick in a 100 mile radius request to me you. Its gross.

HotorNot used to be good about 5 years ago. Now it is nothing but heffers and trannies on there. Any decent looking girls are either a fake picture or only looking to get rated.

I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kuhlraum said:
I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
liar. you closed the window cuz you were wasting time on a fatty, admit it.
 
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