"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am NEVER doing online dating again

Kuhlraum

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Wiesman44 said:
Dude, go to hotornot.com. Post a pic, and watch every UGLY chick in a 100 mile radius request to me you. Its gross.

HotorNot used to be good about 5 years ago. Now it is nothing but heffers and trannies on there. Any decent looking girls are either a fake picture or only looking to get rated.

I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kuhlraum said:
I've also encountered the face pic issue. I talked ot this one girl who had a really nice face, not chubby at all, but after I talked to her she sent me a full body pic and she had to be over 300lbs. I just closed the IM window. I don't mind talking to fat girls, I'm not going to go out with them, but I don't want to talk to someone who doesn't feel good enough about themselves to show who they really are.
liar. you closed the window cuz you were wasting time on a fatty, admit it.
 
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