Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I am leaving SOSUAVE

djinhell

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In my opinion this forum has gone downhill quite heavily recently.

I have however learnt a great deal from this website, so I would like to thank everyone who has helped me in my threads, and the many people who created the helpful threads.

I feel I am at the stage now where there is nothing more I can learn from this place. Instead I need to actually start experiencing. I'm 24 now, and I need to stop lurking on the internet and playing video games, I need to be doing something more constructive i.e work related things or simply getting out and about.

Thats not to say I wont return someday when I need relationship advice etc, but not a day sooner.

Im sure this post will provoke some flaming, but honestly, this post is positive. I have come here, learnt a lot, and now I am leaving the nest so to speak. I am no longer AFC, so thankyou sosuave. :rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Conquer

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suck a fu4king d1ck dj
 

Da Realist

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It's probably not that the forum has gone down, but that you're in a different place in life. It happens. Good luck on offline life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thyme

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yea i think tht this websight is a gift that carries a curse. it can be addicting and many people just lurk the websight and dont go out. im recovering from this 'disease'
 

search1ng

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why can't we just do both at once? Sosuave and it's practical applications in real life. Way i see it, it's more a matter of self control.
 

piranha45

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because if we did both at once then we couldnt make a farewell thread that gives us a chance to inflate our overblown sense of self-importance and take a potshot at the board, all whilst giving a great excuse to not respond to anyone who disagrees or points out the inherent childishness of making such a thread.
 

PRMoon

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You'll be back! They ALL come back!!
 

Rogue

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PRMoon said:
You'll be back! They ALL come back!!
I learned my lesson on another forum years ago to never announce a departure, but I think Neanderthal Solider, who was ahead of my time, was wickedly clever. He asked the moderators to ban him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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search1ng

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... whats stopping him from resetting his IP and making a new account?
 

Rogue

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search1ng said:
... whats stopping him from resetting his IP and making a new account?
Nothing, but if you ask for it to be done then you may have the resolve to stay away.
 

Conquer

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rogue go suck a d1ck already
 

3countriesPlan

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I've been following this site off and on since 2001! Every week it seems someone says the website has been going down the drain. Obviously you can't live on this website, but it is a very nice place to talk about issues that can't be talked about freely on other sites. Noone needs to ever just up and leave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Me

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I think it's great that you got to that point where you feel you need to move on. Best wishes to you.
 

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I think mods should immediately lock these threads. Its not like djinhell is a well known poster anyway.
 

GQ_Confidence_1

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This site has got some great information, esp if you're starting at the bottom in highschool.

But honestly, 90% of the guys on this site would be so much better off if they lived in the outdoor world most of the day. And the internet becomes a small fraction of your life after a long day of doing something all day. I think a lot of people have it the other way around. People in the outdoor world are not overanalyzing things to death.

-Another problem with this site (or any seduction/get girls site) is that it creates too much anxiety and pressure to do something all the time. You should come up with your own wants and goals.
 

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anyone reading this and nodding there head should do the same.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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