"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I am leaving SOSUAVE

djinhell

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In my opinion this forum has gone downhill quite heavily recently.

I have however learnt a great deal from this website, so I would like to thank everyone who has helped me in my threads, and the many people who created the helpful threads.

I feel I am at the stage now where there is nothing more I can learn from this place. Instead I need to actually start experiencing. I'm 24 now, and I need to stop lurking on the internet and playing video games, I need to be doing something more constructive i.e work related things or simply getting out and about.

Thats not to say I wont return someday when I need relationship advice etc, but not a day sooner.

Im sure this post will provoke some flaming, but honestly, this post is positive. I have come here, learnt a lot, and now I am leaving the nest so to speak. I am no longer AFC, so thankyou sosuave. :rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Conquer

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suck a fu4king d1ck dj
 

Da Realist

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It's probably not that the forum has gone down, but that you're in a different place in life. It happens. Good luck on offline life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thyme

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yea i think tht this websight is a gift that carries a curse. it can be addicting and many people just lurk the websight and dont go out. im recovering from this 'disease'
 

search1ng

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why can't we just do both at once? Sosuave and it's practical applications in real life. Way i see it, it's more a matter of self control.
 

piranha45

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because if we did both at once then we couldnt make a farewell thread that gives us a chance to inflate our overblown sense of self-importance and take a potshot at the board, all whilst giving a great excuse to not respond to anyone who disagrees or points out the inherent childishness of making such a thread.
 

PRMoon

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You'll be back! They ALL come back!!
 

Rogue

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PRMoon said:
You'll be back! They ALL come back!!
I learned my lesson on another forum years ago to never announce a departure, but I think Neanderthal Solider, who was ahead of my time, was wickedly clever. He asked the moderators to ban him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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search1ng

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... whats stopping him from resetting his IP and making a new account?
 

Rogue

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search1ng said:
... whats stopping him from resetting his IP and making a new account?
Nothing, but if you ask for it to be done then you may have the resolve to stay away.
 

Conquer

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rogue go suck a d1ck already
 

3countriesPlan

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I've been following this site off and on since 2001! Every week it seems someone says the website has been going down the drain. Obviously you can't live on this website, but it is a very nice place to talk about issues that can't be talked about freely on other sites. Noone needs to ever just up and leave.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr. Me

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I think it's great that you got to that point where you feel you need to move on. Best wishes to you.
 

horaholic

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I think mods should immediately lock these threads. Its not like djinhell is a well known poster anyway.
 

GQ_Confidence_1

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This site has got some great information, esp if you're starting at the bottom in highschool.

But honestly, 90% of the guys on this site would be so much better off if they lived in the outdoor world most of the day. And the internet becomes a small fraction of your life after a long day of doing something all day. I think a lot of people have it the other way around. People in the outdoor world are not overanalyzing things to death.

-Another problem with this site (or any seduction/get girls site) is that it creates too much anxiety and pressure to do something all the time. You should come up with your own wants and goals.
 

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anyone reading this and nodding there head should do the same.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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