Target_100
Senior Don Juan
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That is all.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I am going to get so self confident that I can approach girls everywhere without fear
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
chicksrock
Master Don Juan
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and its really not that hard..
my success in the past has been because
1) i approach with an attitude where i've got nothing to lose...and if the woman acts like a bi%tch...(this happens verrrrrrrrrrrrrry rarely)...i'll just move on and share my loving attention warmth and charm with another more deserving chick...
live that attitude guyz !
and good luck
meanwhille
i'm going to work on further improving my approaches
that is all
my success in the past has been because
1) i approach with an attitude where i've got nothing to lose...and if the woman acts like a bi%tch...(this happens verrrrrrrrrrrrrry rarely)...i'll just move on and share my loving attention warmth and charm with another more deserving chick...
live that attitude guyz !
and good luck
meanwhille
i'm going to work on further improving my approaches
that is all
Target_100
Senior Don Juan
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This saturday, I hit on four attractive girls in clubs, and I hadn't had anything to drink. This is a major improvement for me! I did hesitate a lot a few times, so the number of girls hit on could probably have been around ten to fifteen.
One step at a time though!
One step at a time though!
JT47319
Master Don Juan
Post again when you get to 200 sets (sets as in groups of guys/girls, not just lonewolves).
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
In other words - you are going to be a man!!! Men don't fear women - we are 'hesitant' but we do not fear!! Go for it!!!Originally posted by Target_100
That is all.
Ive been working this stuff slowly but surely. Yesterday I chatted up this really cute woman behind the counter of the coffea shop I go to. I totally intterupted these other two guys who were scamming her. I just went up and started talking to her like those other guys wernt even there! They looked stunned, turned around and went and sat down. And they were both much better looking than I am. Point being confidence is the first and last thing you need!