Target_100
Senior Don Juan
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That is all.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I am going to get so self confident that I can approach girls everywhere without fear
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
chicksrock
Master Don Juan
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and its really not that hard..
my success in the past has been because
1) i approach with an attitude where i've got nothing to lose...and if the woman acts like a bi%tch...(this happens verrrrrrrrrrrrrry rarely)...i'll just move on and share my loving attention warmth and charm with another more deserving chick...
live that attitude guyz !
and good luck
meanwhille
i'm going to work on further improving my approaches
that is all
my success in the past has been because
1) i approach with an attitude where i've got nothing to lose...and if the woman acts like a bi%tch...(this happens verrrrrrrrrrrrrry rarely)...i'll just move on and share my loving attention warmth and charm with another more deserving chick...
live that attitude guyz !
and good luck
meanwhille
i'm going to work on further improving my approaches
that is all
Target_100
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 16, 2004
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This saturday, I hit on four attractive girls in clubs, and I hadn't had anything to drink. This is a major improvement for me! I did hesitate a lot a few times, so the number of girls hit on could probably have been around ten to fifteen.
One step at a time though!
One step at a time though!
JT47319
Master Don Juan
Post again when you get to 200 sets (sets as in groups of guys/girls, not just lonewolves).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
In other words - you are going to be a man!!! Men don't fear women - we are 'hesitant' but we do not fear!! Go for it!!!Originally posted by Target_100
That is all.
Ive been working this stuff slowly but surely. Yesterday I chatted up this really cute woman behind the counter of the coffea shop I go to. I totally intterupted these other two guys who were scamming her. I just went up and started talking to her like those other guys wernt even there! They looked stunned, turned around and went and sat down. And they were both much better looking than I am. Point being confidence is the first and last thing you need!