Target_100
Senior Don Juan
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That is all.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I am going to get so self confident that I can approach girls everywhere without fear
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
chicksrock
Master Don Juan
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and its really not that hard..
my success in the past has been because
1) i approach with an attitude where i've got nothing to lose...and if the woman acts like a bi%tch...(this happens verrrrrrrrrrrrrry rarely)...i'll just move on and share my loving attention warmth and charm with another more deserving chick...
live that attitude guyz !
and good luck
meanwhille
i'm going to work on further improving my approaches
that is all
my success in the past has been because
1) i approach with an attitude where i've got nothing to lose...and if the woman acts like a bi%tch...(this happens verrrrrrrrrrrrrry rarely)...i'll just move on and share my loving attention warmth and charm with another more deserving chick...
live that attitude guyz !
and good luck
meanwhille
i'm going to work on further improving my approaches
that is all
Target_100
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 16, 2004
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This saturday, I hit on four attractive girls in clubs, and I hadn't had anything to drink. This is a major improvement for me! I did hesitate a lot a few times, so the number of girls hit on could probably have been around ten to fifteen.
One step at a time though!
One step at a time though!
JT47319
Master Don Juan
Post again when you get to 200 sets (sets as in groups of guys/girls, not just lonewolves).
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
In other words - you are going to be a man!!! Men don't fear women - we are 'hesitant' but we do not fear!! Go for it!!!Originally posted by Target_100
That is all.
Ive been working this stuff slowly but surely. Yesterday I chatted up this really cute woman behind the counter of the coffea shop I go to. I totally intterupted these other two guys who were scamming her. I just went up and started talking to her like those other guys wernt even there! They looked stunned, turned around and went and sat down. And they were both much better looking than I am. Point being confidence is the first and last thing you need!