Really, who cares if you rarely post negatively? No one gives a damn if you are one of the most positive bible thumping door-to-door missionaries who has never said a negative word in his life. The fact is, your post full of negativity. And it showed from the get go.
95% of the guys? So now you're pulling out percentages out of your ass. I played the 12 plates over the course of around 9 months. Of the 12, 3 stuck around like flies. The other 9 slowly became on and off. Since 2014 started and I started running into my desired woman more in college, I pushed the other plates away. For all I know, most of them probably labeled me "as a jerk who was just playing with us" and probably moved on (and they better, cause they mean jack **** to me now). The three still actively message me, and I just ignore them (because they also mean jack **** to me now). I'm sick and tired of talking to girls, it's the whole damned rinse and repeat thing. I want something meaningful, something lasting, something with someone I KNOW, not from a pickup. And that's where this beautiful woman in my life comes. And from the looks of it, all I had to do was wait and approach, it was a long awaited and slow start, but it was worth every second and now there are countless new doors that have opened up for us.
Me waiting around for her this one time so I can approach her no matter what, without losing the chance if I leave it to accidental (because college is ending and I rather approach her in college where she is always alone, whereas with girl friends outside) makes me obsessed? Because of course, I rather stare at ceilings during the break I have between classes instead of wait around for and to approach the lady of my dreams right? Try harder kiddo.
Those "12 other options" are, again, as the name implies, OPTIONS. I dont even give a flying fvuk about them; been months. They can all go jump off of Mt Everest holding hands together for all I care (ok, I don't want them to die, but you get my point).
Oxymoron? So me saying the fact she and I have a history together automatically means it was a romantic relationship, or one was tried? Since you were too thick to understand, by history I meant we go back nearly 10 years; we aren't strangers per se; we know each other's names and basic information (friends, living address, etc). By a 100% clean slate I meant that we never really talked, we never tried dating, we never hung out, never nothing. Clean perfect slate. We have so much to open up to each other about. And man am I glad we are going to do this now than years ago; when we are more mature and developed than we were 2-5 years ago.
Stop using "stare" so literally and heavily. Walking by each other with strong eye contact not only was from both parties, but signs of high interest. Here's some simple psychology for you: when you like something or someone and they attract your attention, you LOOK at that person or thing.
Wifey was a substitute to the commonly used "HB" here. For some reason, I digress using the term HB. I do not want to label or refer to her as "hot". Nothing serious. I just dont like the term that's all.
Like I said before, I have good memory. I can remember what people said when. I remember the events of my elementary school; junior high school. I remember certain conversations and certain events. I remember people's names. I remember close friend's birthdays and whatnot. I am one of those types of people who actually remembers phone numbers by mind, instead of contact books nowadays. Remember the days where people used to dial numbers off of their head? Yeah, I'm 23, but I am of that generation nevertheless. My dream lady is someone important to me, even if I don't have her officially yet. If I don't place importance on her, she would be like every other girl. Until things are not made concrete, she will remain as such. So yes, I will remember everything about her. And guess what, this will play in my favor because girls love men who remember such details, from past interactions or during conversations. Gaming 101 buddy.
Stop using generalized bull**** when it comes to putting a woman on a pedestal. My older brother put his love lady on a high pedestal (they also met at age 14ish) and they are now happily married for the past 7 years, with 2 daughters and a son. I can pull up more scenarios like this if you'd like.
1. I am trying to rid of the 12 biatches, thanks. And it's actually going pretty smooth save for the 3.
2. Trust me, I wish I had her timetable. Problems?
3. Lol. The last thing I want is "My Wifey" to see me with one of my plates. She sees me interacting with girls many times; but I don't want to be seen as a player.
I'm sorry to tell you that you are one of those easy types; who give up before anything even happens lol. I wish you luck in your everyday endeavors. Don't forgot to eat everyday just because you have to "work" for it. Things don't happen on their own. If you know where I'm getting at.
Proper planning and execution > taking heed of bull**** and weak advice built on the foundations of "Don't even try, just give up!"
