"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I am going bald! What do I do?

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I was there, but caught it early enough to reverse. Have plenty of hair. Go to a dermatologist and get a minox 7% / finasteride 1% topical solution that you massage into you scalp twice a day. Be for warned, once you start, you can never stop. However, I get by with using it once a day. This sh!t is better than the OTC Rogaine. It shouldn't cause any sexual side effects. I have no problems getting hard or staying hard. It should set you back about 35 bucks a month or so with the solution. Do not take the Propecia pill. That has sexual side effects that may or may not go away. Start now to reverse. It should take about six months to come back to base. At least, that is what it took for me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is natural ways to reverse it, your chances are high if it just started until then keep a cut that will minimize it visually. I dropped that site and article, read up and research, try out some head massages. Baldness is not caused by DHT that is an effect, its cause by lack of blood flow, calcification which leads to your scalp tightening and fibrosis.
 

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I envy you guys that have decent heads for shaving. I don't think my head would look good shaved.. wrong shape... bumpy... i am not balding but if that day comes I hope for my ugly heads sake they discover a cure
 

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One suggestion I had in mind, is to go completely bald. ( I have heard bald people have a nice testosterone boost ) do you guys have any other suggestions?

I am a 23 year old male
First thing you do is talk to your regular doctor.

I was thinking about this thread when I saw my doc for 1year physical. I asked what should be done when first noticing thinning hair. Blood work. First things they look at is thyroid function.
 

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envy you guys that have decent heads for shaving. I don't think my head would look good shaved.. wrong shape... bumpy... i am not balding but if that day comes I hope for my ugly heads sake they discover a cure
Try it..i also used to think the same way, until i shaved! Hey I have never looked much better :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is natural ways to reverse it, your chances are high if it just started until then keep a cut that will minimize it visually. I dropped that site and article, read up and research, try out some head massages. Baldness is not caused by DHT that is an effect, its cause by lack of blood flow, calcification which leads to your scalp tightening and fibrosis.
True. Massaging the scalp increases the blood flow to the head. And massaging the head while it 's bald, can do wonders. I guess it's bacuase there is not much weight of the hair, so the follicles stay stuck with the scalp.
 

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Guess I'll be the first to post in this topic who actually knows anything about hair loss... It's caused by DHT and certain follicles sensitivity to it. That's why finasteride works--it lowers DHT, both in your system and on your scalp. Same with dutasteride. It's genetic and you can do nothing about it other than shave your head, take fin/dut & minoxidil, or get a hair transplant (you may need to use fin/dut after).

I've been on finasteride for about 4 years and dutasteride for about 2. Been using minoxidil twice a day for about 3 years. I'm a Norwood 2 now, but I have a "patch" on my left Temple that makes me think about getting a hair transplant. I'd say my hair is/has been pretty stable except for the patch.

You can buy these medications online for relatively cheap from alldaychemist. I personally have had no side effects. These are your only options. PM me if you want to know more.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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