"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am going bald! What do I do?

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I was there, but caught it early enough to reverse. Have plenty of hair. Go to a dermatologist and get a minox 7% / finasteride 1% topical solution that you massage into you scalp twice a day. Be for warned, once you start, you can never stop. However, I get by with using it once a day. This sh!t is better than the OTC Rogaine. It shouldn't cause any sexual side effects. I have no problems getting hard or staying hard. It should set you back about 35 bucks a month or so with the solution. Do not take the Propecia pill. That has sexual side effects that may or may not go away. Start now to reverse. It should take about six months to come back to base. At least, that is what it took for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is natural ways to reverse it, your chances are high if it just started until then keep a cut that will minimize it visually. I dropped that site and article, read up and research, try out some head massages. Baldness is not caused by DHT that is an effect, its cause by lack of blood flow, calcification which leads to your scalp tightening and fibrosis.
 

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I envy you guys that have decent heads for shaving. I don't think my head would look good shaved.. wrong shape... bumpy... i am not balding but if that day comes I hope for my ugly heads sake they discover a cure
 

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One suggestion I had in mind, is to go completely bald. ( I have heard bald people have a nice testosterone boost ) do you guys have any other suggestions?

I am a 23 year old male
First thing you do is talk to your regular doctor.

I was thinking about this thread when I saw my doc for 1year physical. I asked what should be done when first noticing thinning hair. Blood work. First things they look at is thyroid function.
 

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envy you guys that have decent heads for shaving. I don't think my head would look good shaved.. wrong shape... bumpy... i am not balding but if that day comes I hope for my ugly heads sake they discover a cure
Try it..i also used to think the same way, until i shaved! Hey I have never looked much better :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There is natural ways to reverse it, your chances are high if it just started until then keep a cut that will minimize it visually. I dropped that site and article, read up and research, try out some head massages. Baldness is not caused by DHT that is an effect, its cause by lack of blood flow, calcification which leads to your scalp tightening and fibrosis.
True. Massaging the scalp increases the blood flow to the head. And massaging the head while it 's bald, can do wonders. I guess it's bacuase there is not much weight of the hair, so the follicles stay stuck with the scalp.
 

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Guess I'll be the first to post in this topic who actually knows anything about hair loss... It's caused by DHT and certain follicles sensitivity to it. That's why finasteride works--it lowers DHT, both in your system and on your scalp. Same with dutasteride. It's genetic and you can do nothing about it other than shave your head, take fin/dut & minoxidil, or get a hair transplant (you may need to use fin/dut after).

I've been on finasteride for about 4 years and dutasteride for about 2. Been using minoxidil twice a day for about 3 years. I'm a Norwood 2 now, but I have a "patch" on my left Temple that makes me think about getting a hair transplant. I'd say my hair is/has been pretty stable except for the patch.

You can buy these medications online for relatively cheap from alldaychemist. I personally have had no side effects. These are your only options. PM me if you want to know more.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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