"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i am exhausted of idea's

ye yeah

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ive tried everything to get out of the LJBF zone,and she is too blind too see,every now and then i think hey theres a sign of interest then she cancels it out by doing something totally without care,i have no idea's left,tried every trick ive read,this girl is above any system she liked me once,a few months back and i didnt even know it,and now try as i may nothing works,
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Actually the time and effort to turn this one around may equal to scoring 2-3 HBs hotter than her.
 

KillaCam

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Indeed.

One-itis from 'nam. If it isn't going to work, then fussing, fretting and wondering isn't going to work.

All that effort could have been put into much more productive things for sure. Put this girl on the backburner. Concerntrate on hobbies, school/work and just go out and have some fun dude!

Go mack some honeys that are willing to acknowledge your qualities as a man.

It's cliche, but it's true. Plenty more fish in the sea.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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