"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i am exhausted of idea's

ye yeah

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ive tried everything to get out of the LJBF zone,and she is too blind too see,every now and then i think hey theres a sign of interest then she cancels it out by doing something totally without care,i have no idea's left,tried every trick ive read,this girl is above any system she liked me once,a few months back and i didnt even know it,and now try as i may nothing works,
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Actually the time and effort to turn this one around may equal to scoring 2-3 HBs hotter than her.
 

KillaCam

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Indeed.

One-itis from 'nam. If it isn't going to work, then fussing, fretting and wondering isn't going to work.

All that effort could have been put into much more productive things for sure. Put this girl on the backburner. Concerntrate on hobbies, school/work and just go out and have some fun dude!

Go mack some honeys that are willing to acknowledge your qualities as a man.

It's cliche, but it's true. Plenty more fish in the sea.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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