"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i am exhausted of idea's

ye yeah

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ive tried everything to get out of the LJBF zone,and she is too blind too see,every now and then i think hey theres a sign of interest then she cancels it out by doing something totally without care,i have no idea's left,tried every trick ive read,this girl is above any system she liked me once,a few months back and i didnt even know it,and now try as i may nothing works,
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Actually the time and effort to turn this one around may equal to scoring 2-3 HBs hotter than her.
 

KillaCam

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Indeed.

One-itis from 'nam. If it isn't going to work, then fussing, fretting and wondering isn't going to work.

All that effort could have been put into much more productive things for sure. Put this girl on the backburner. Concerntrate on hobbies, school/work and just go out and have some fun dude!

Go mack some honeys that are willing to acknowledge your qualities as a man.

It's cliche, but it's true. Plenty more fish in the sea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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