Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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Backstory: I was dating 5 girls in 2021 and it became a complete mess. Everything fell apart during New Year and just the idea of dating has been completely sour to me ever since. I've honestly done a lot and justified a lot of things that I'm not proud of and it's time to own up. Here are my reasons for considering:
1). Lack of control- I feel like pvssy has dictated my life since I was in late HS. I have actually always envied the guys with low sex drives or who could turn down pvssy. I'm just sick of it being the main deciding factor in most of my decisions. Some of the happiest times of my life were 8th-10th grade where all I did was go to school and come home, play halo 3/cod4, hang out with friends. Yet, I wasn't getting laid or even thinking about women at that point in time.
2). The lingering price and consequences of pvssy- One of the worst mistakes a man can ever make is to get the wrong woman pregnant. Not only do you have to pay alimony but you have to deal with this woman for the rest of your life unless you do not plan on ever seeing your kid again. ORR you stick it out, but you end up like Will Smith where literally everyone is against you. I don't want to hear any excuses because even men including manosphere men join women and attack weak vulnerable men in these situations.
3). Dating isn't fun at all - I don't like being an entertainer to strangers. I don't like driving across the city to bullshvt locations. I don't like spending my weekends going to the farmers market, fair, or visiting her family & friends. I don't like going to strangers' apartments and worrying about getting towed or not. None of these things are enjoyable at all. I don't like sticking through some dumb date or show on Netflix and having to think of my next move to obtain sex. I don't like some girl arguing with me at 11pn on a Sunday night because she doesn't feel like I'm emotional enough or some random disney bull shvt. I would much rather sit my ass at home and play Elden Ring with a nice glass of whiskey & coke.
4). Post-Nut Clarity is real- When I'm done busting a nut, I literally want to do it again 5 minutes later. I went through all that shvt just to have 5-10 minutes of pleasure. At this point, I feel like a washed-up dusty drug addict always looking for the next high.
Now my decision isn't final, but these are the main reasons that have been lingering in my mind lately. Feel free to discuss with me, but please don't come in here with this "JUST BE ALPHA"and women will just suck your dvck and leave on command type shvt lol.
1). Lack of control- I feel like pvssy has dictated my life since I was in late HS. I have actually always envied the guys with low sex drives or who could turn down pvssy. I'm just sick of it being the main deciding factor in most of my decisions. Some of the happiest times of my life were 8th-10th grade where all I did was go to school and come home, play halo 3/cod4, hang out with friends. Yet, I wasn't getting laid or even thinking about women at that point in time.
2). The lingering price and consequences of pvssy- One of the worst mistakes a man can ever make is to get the wrong woman pregnant. Not only do you have to pay alimony but you have to deal with this woman for the rest of your life unless you do not plan on ever seeing your kid again. ORR you stick it out, but you end up like Will Smith where literally everyone is against you. I don't want to hear any excuses because even men including manosphere men join women and attack weak vulnerable men in these situations.
3). Dating isn't fun at all - I don't like being an entertainer to strangers. I don't like driving across the city to bullshvt locations. I don't like spending my weekends going to the farmers market, fair, or visiting her family & friends. I don't like going to strangers' apartments and worrying about getting towed or not. None of these things are enjoyable at all. I don't like sticking through some dumb date or show on Netflix and having to think of my next move to obtain sex. I don't like some girl arguing with me at 11pn on a Sunday night because she doesn't feel like I'm emotional enough or some random disney bull shvt. I would much rather sit my ass at home and play Elden Ring with a nice glass of whiskey & coke.
4). Post-Nut Clarity is real- When I'm done busting a nut, I literally want to do it again 5 minutes later. I went through all that shvt just to have 5-10 minutes of pleasure. At this point, I feel like a washed-up dusty drug addict always looking for the next high.
Now my decision isn't final, but these are the main reasons that have been lingering in my mind lately. Feel free to discuss with me, but please don't come in here with this "JUST BE ALPHA"and women will just suck your dvck and leave on command type shvt lol.