So I met a girl, and we had a great time the first time. I then invited her out FOUR times, and not only did she flake all four times, she waited until a few hours beforehand each time to do so. The first time she did it, she claimed that she had work commitments and she does work in a job where she can get called on at the last moment, so I let it slide. She then did the same thing three more times. Luckily, after the first flake, I was always a little wary so I kept other plates spinning and so did not waste any of those evenings waiting around for her. The only invitation she turned up to was a massive party I threw which was very succesful. After the party, I invited her out again thinking that the social proof might be enough to change her attitude. Nope she flaked again at the last minute, sending a long text full of excuses why she couldn't make it while also asking me for advice regarding arranging a trip. I just sent her back a text saying "Whatever. Have a nice life." and deleted her from my facebook.
I think this highlights the importance of being disciplined and Nexting women as soon as they show disrespect or a lack of interest. Not doing otherwise just leads to wasted time and effort. If a woman shows a lack of interest at the beginning, it is usually unlikely that they may change their minds, especially if you keep on showing interest by asking them out.
I think this highlights the importance of being disciplined and Nexting women as soon as they show disrespect or a lack of interest. Not doing otherwise just leads to wasted time and effort. If a woman shows a lack of interest at the beginning, it is usually unlikely that they may change their minds, especially if you keep on showing interest by asking them out.
