"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I am a Don Juan! ASK me anything!
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 25, 2017
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
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- Age
- 35
What is underneath Double D's hat?
What are some ways to outcompete a rival DJ who is after the same girl?
How do you break the habits of complimenting attractive girls? Is it something you must stop doing?
phil2015
Senior Don Juan
- I've started working out and going running
- Dating new women
- Joined POF
- Thinking of going into investment
- May book a holiday for myself
Is there anything else you would add to this list?
- Lesbian needs us too!
What is underneath Double D's hat?
- The engine??
What are some ways to outcompete a rival DJ who is after the same girl?
- **** block? Amog? I'd just walk away! Not worth my time or effort to compete for the same girl!
How do you break the habits of complimenting attractive girls? Is it something you must stop doing?
- You compliment in a way that actually flatter her!
I tried!
- Delete phone, text, email etc.
- Set some goals for yourself
- Enjoy life more
- Stop giving a fk
- Let go
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.