"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I am a Don Juan! ASK me anything!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
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- Mar 25, 2017
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What is underneath Double D's hat?
What are some ways to outcompete a rival DJ who is after the same girl?
How do you break the habits of complimenting attractive girls? Is it something you must stop doing?
phil2015
Senior Don Juan
- I've started working out and going running
- Dating new women
- Joined POF
- Thinking of going into investment
- May book a holiday for myself
Is there anything else you would add to this list?
- Lesbian needs us too!
What is underneath Double D's hat?
- The engine??
What are some ways to outcompete a rival DJ who is after the same girl?
- **** block? Amog? I'd just walk away! Not worth my time or effort to compete for the same girl!
How do you break the habits of complimenting attractive girls? Is it something you must stop doing?
- You compliment in a way that actually flatter her!
I tried!
- Delete phone, text, email etc.
- Set some goals for yourself
- Enjoy life more
- Stop giving a fk
- Let go
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.