"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 25, 2017
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
- 102
- Age
- 35
What is underneath Double D's hat?
What are some ways to outcompete a rival DJ who is after the same girl?
How do you break the habits of complimenting attractive girls? Is it something you must stop doing?
phil2015
Senior Don Juan
- I've started working out and going running
- Dating new women
- Joined POF
- Thinking of going into investment
- May book a holiday for myself
Is there anything else you would add to this list?
- Lesbian needs us too!
What is underneath Double D's hat?
- The engine??
What are some ways to outcompete a rival DJ who is after the same girl?
- **** block? Amog? I'd just walk away! Not worth my time or effort to compete for the same girl!
How do you break the habits of complimenting attractive girls? Is it something you must stop doing?
- You compliment in a way that actually flatter her!
I tried!
- Delete phone, text, email etc.
- Set some goals for yourself
- Enjoy life more
- Stop giving a fk
- Let go
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.