"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am 57

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I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you're saying that's the only, or main way, to get pvssy, you're wrong.
 

ER!C L!VE

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I know a 43yo weightlifter/biker w/ long hair who gets some hot ass young 21yo girls and hot 40 somethings.

He works as a maintenance man for an apartment complex. He's got money to afford a nice bike, but that's about all he has.

IMO, it's not all about money and power. Lifestyle and attraction and personality help.
 

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My friend knows a guy with a menial job, living in his parents' basement, recently divorced who is pulling more tail than imaginable.

He says he's just witty, charming, and fearless.
 
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Originally posted by cave dweller
I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
True if you have no game or no looks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1utfan1

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Originally posted by cave dweller
I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
Age doesn't seem to be a huge obstacle if you have as Westcoaster nailed it "He says he's just witty, charming, and fearless.".
 
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I think your emphasis was "as you get older", you are correct - money and power are a tremendous factor but only if you are going after babes who are 20 years younger than you!

If you are going after your age bracket then I say it is about ‘compatibility’ and other immeasurable factors (i.e humor, personality, wit, etc…)

There is another DJ on this board your age but I will not divulge his name.
 

Crank_It_Up

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Originally posted by cave dweller
...The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
if a girl's priority is the earning power of her partner, that would seem to show a lack of confidence in her own earning power. If she was confident in her own ability to reach financial security, the earning power of her lover would not matter.

Let the weak, shallow, gold digging parasites alone and conentrate on the well rounded, well adjusted, confident women.
 

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Re: Re: I am 57

Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
if a girl's priority is the earning power of her partner, that would seem to show a lack of confidence in her own earning power. If she was confident in her own ability to reach financial security, the earning power of her lover would not matter.

Let the weak, shallow, gold digging parasites alone and conentrate on the well rounded, well adjusted, confident women.
One of the many lessons i've learned on this board is what Crank_It_up pointed out.
 

decades

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Richard Brautigan, who wrote "Trout Fishing in America, All Watched Over By Machines of Loving Grace, In Watermelon Sugar, etc," said he didn't have a car when he lived in San Francisco, and that NEVER stopped him from getting plenty of tail. :D

Mike
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
...There is another DJ on this board your age but I will not divulge his name.
You mean someone other than me??:p

While I was doing better in my 30's and 40's, I'm still doing OK. Not necessarily with 20somethings (who I'm absolutely surronded by), but in my range of 35-65. AND, I don't have a load of money (he!!, I work at a college).
 
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