"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am 57

cave dweller

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I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're saying that's the only, or main way, to get pvssy, you're wrong.
 

ER!C L!VE

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I know a 43yo weightlifter/biker w/ long hair who gets some hot ass young 21yo girls and hot 40 somethings.

He works as a maintenance man for an apartment complex. He's got money to afford a nice bike, but that's about all he has.

IMO, it's not all about money and power. Lifestyle and attraction and personality help.
 

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My friend knows a guy with a menial job, living in his parents' basement, recently divorced who is pulling more tail than imaginable.

He says he's just witty, charming, and fearless.
 
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Originally posted by cave dweller
I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
True if you have no game or no looks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1utfan1

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Originally posted by cave dweller
I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
Age doesn't seem to be a huge obstacle if you have as Westcoaster nailed it "He says he's just witty, charming, and fearless.".
 
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I think your emphasis was "as you get older", you are correct - money and power are a tremendous factor but only if you are going after babes who are 20 years younger than you!

If you are going after your age bracket then I say it is about ‘compatibility’ and other immeasurable factors (i.e humor, personality, wit, etc…)

There is another DJ on this board your age but I will not divulge his name.
 

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Originally posted by cave dweller
...The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
if a girl's priority is the earning power of her partner, that would seem to show a lack of confidence in her own earning power. If she was confident in her own ability to reach financial security, the earning power of her lover would not matter.

Let the weak, shallow, gold digging parasites alone and conentrate on the well rounded, well adjusted, confident women.
 

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Re: Re: I am 57

Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
if a girl's priority is the earning power of her partner, that would seem to show a lack of confidence in her own earning power. If she was confident in her own ability to reach financial security, the earning power of her lover would not matter.

Let the weak, shallow, gold digging parasites alone and conentrate on the well rounded, well adjusted, confident women.
One of the many lessons i've learned on this board is what Crank_It_up pointed out.
 

decades

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Richard Brautigan, who wrote "Trout Fishing in America, All Watched Over By Machines of Loving Grace, In Watermelon Sugar, etc," said he didn't have a car when he lived in San Francisco, and that NEVER stopped him from getting plenty of tail. :D

Mike
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
...There is another DJ on this board your age but I will not divulge his name.
You mean someone other than me??:p

While I was doing better in my 30's and 40's, I'm still doing OK. Not necessarily with 20somethings (who I'm absolutely surronded by), but in my range of 35-65. AND, I don't have a load of money (he!!, I work at a college).
 
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