"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am 57

cave dweller

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I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you're saying that's the only, or main way, to get pvssy, you're wrong.
 

ER!C L!VE

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I know a 43yo weightlifter/biker w/ long hair who gets some hot ass young 21yo girls and hot 40 somethings.

He works as a maintenance man for an apartment complex. He's got money to afford a nice bike, but that's about all he has.

IMO, it's not all about money and power. Lifestyle and attraction and personality help.
 

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My friend knows a guy with a menial job, living in his parents' basement, recently divorced who is pulling more tail than imaginable.

He says he's just witty, charming, and fearless.
 
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Originally posted by cave dweller
I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
True if you have no game or no looks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1utfan1

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Originally posted by cave dweller
I am 57, been divorced for the last 15 years.
Am I the oldest guy in here?
I don't need to tell you older guys this, BUT:

When you get older it is all about power and money.

The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
Age doesn't seem to be a huge obstacle if you have as Westcoaster nailed it "He says he's just witty, charming, and fearless.".
 
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I think your emphasis was "as you get older", you are correct - money and power are a tremendous factor but only if you are going after babes who are 20 years younger than you!

If you are going after your age bracket then I say it is about ‘compatibility’ and other immeasurable factors (i.e humor, personality, wit, etc…)

There is another DJ on this board your age but I will not divulge his name.
 

Crank_It_Up

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Originally posted by cave dweller
...The 'cat with the cash' gets the most pvssy.

cave dweller
if a girl's priority is the earning power of her partner, that would seem to show a lack of confidence in her own earning power. If she was confident in her own ability to reach financial security, the earning power of her lover would not matter.

Let the weak, shallow, gold digging parasites alone and conentrate on the well rounded, well adjusted, confident women.
 

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Re: Re: I am 57

Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
if a girl's priority is the earning power of her partner, that would seem to show a lack of confidence in her own earning power. If she was confident in her own ability to reach financial security, the earning power of her lover would not matter.

Let the weak, shallow, gold digging parasites alone and conentrate on the well rounded, well adjusted, confident women.
One of the many lessons i've learned on this board is what Crank_It_up pointed out.
 

decades

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Richard Brautigan, who wrote "Trout Fishing in America, All Watched Over By Machines of Loving Grace, In Watermelon Sugar, etc," said he didn't have a car when he lived in San Francisco, and that NEVER stopped him from getting plenty of tail. :D

Mike
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
...There is another DJ on this board your age but I will not divulge his name.
You mean someone other than me??:p

While I was doing better in my 30's and 40's, I'm still doing OK. Not necessarily with 20somethings (who I'm absolutely surronded by), but in my range of 35-65. AND, I don't have a load of money (he!!, I work at a college).
 
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