"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I always get the wrong kinda girls!

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Ark Dragon

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ok, i have no trouble talking to girls...but the kind of girls who always like me are the attention whor*es and super nice religious types....these are not the kind of girls i want...
I want a girl who is interesting and nice at the same time but isnt afraid to do something wild or bad every now and then. Are girls like this really rare?? Whats wrong here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blienk

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Originally posted by Ark Dragon

I want a girl who is interesting and nice at the same time but isnt afraid to do something wild or bad every now and then. Are girls like this really rare??
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In a word, yes.
 
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neobrood

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but the kind of girls who always like me are the attention whor*es and super nice religious types....these are not the kind of girls i want...
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So do you have any tips taking these kinds of chicks?

I like the "super nice religious types". I'm not yet financially stable enough to face the consequences of accidental pregnancy and stuff.

But attention whoares... MAYBE. It all depends how much attention they demand from me.
 
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Go for the super nice religious types and then try to corrupt them. I have one of these right now and have never been knocked back for anything... ever :D
 
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So do you have any tips taking these kinds of chicks?
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Yea count me in as well, can you come off as a player in front of these girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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