"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I always get the wrong kinda girls!

Ark Dragon

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ok, i have no trouble talking to girls...but the kind of girls who always like me are the attention whor*es and super nice religious types....these are not the kind of girls i want...
I want a girl who is interesting and nice at the same time but isnt afraid to do something wild or bad every now and then. Are girls like this really rare?? Whats wrong here?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blienk

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Originally posted by Ark Dragon

I want a girl who is interesting and nice at the same time but isnt afraid to do something wild or bad every now and then. Are girls like this really rare??
In a word, yes.
 

neobrood

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but the kind of girls who always like me are the attention whor*es and super nice religious types....these are not the kind of girls i want...
So do you have any tips taking these kinds of chicks?

I like the "super nice religious types". I'm not yet financially stable enough to face the consequences of accidental pregnancy and stuff.

But attention whoares... MAYBE. It all depends how much attention they demand from me.
 

Cremasta

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Go for the super nice religious types and then try to corrupt them. I have one of these right now and have never been knocked back for anything... ever :D
 

Deadly_Assassin

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So do you have any tips taking these kinds of chicks?
Yea count me in as well, can you come off as a player in front of these girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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