"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I act the way I acted when I first meet someone. Help! (explanation inside)

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iCatch

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when i first meet someone and act alpha i'm like that all the time with that person. when i first meet someone and act beta i have a hard time acting alpha around that person afterwards

example:

when college firat started i was alpha as heck in one class and had no problem being that way the rest of the semester

in another class i was in a bad mood the first day and was really quiet and it's really hard to speak up after that and be alpha

any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dj bible. No one here can give you advice. What works for them most likely won't work for u. So read it.
 
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It's because when you first meet someone you create an image of yourself in those people's minds of the sort of person you are. Once you've done that you will feel the need to conform to their ideas of who you are and how you act every time you are around them. Breaking this cycle makes you feel uneasy and vulnerable at first but it can be done if you want to make it happen enough.
If you make the change and STICK with it, people will have no choice but to adapt to the new you and change how they view you.

It's as simple as that.
 
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That's the weird thing about this board. Or at least the younger folk on it (not that I'm old). There's all this talk about "alpha" and "beta". Just be you. You don't need to dominate a classroom or a frat to get women or to be confident.

The social order of things tends to work itself out. I don't know how anyone can live a normal life while constantly jockeying for hierarchy in different groups.

If you're quiet on your first day of class, and you missed your chance to be "alpha" then come in on the second (or 3rd, 4th, or 5th) day of class and make friends with the people surrounding you. Just be friendly and welcoming and social, and people will gravitate towards you. After that, I guess all your "beta" followers will form...if that's what you're into.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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