Sup guys, I haven’t been on here for like years. Just came back here to see what I should do about this situation.
Long story short, I took out a married woman to dinner 6-7 months ago. During this time,
She would come to my work and talk and play cards with other ppl at the table.
Well, last week she was at my table and everyone at the table was enjoying themselves talking and laughing and out of the blue she said she’s free this week and if I want to hang out? I replied back with a no without an explanation. I later realized I was being an *** and I may have embarrassed her in front of other ppl so I leaned close to her and said I’m busy this week cuz I have to do so n so. She nodded and said oh ok that’s fine n such. I didn’t want ppl to hear our convo and that we went out before so I quickly said no so she would drop the convo, but she must have thought I was being an ***..
Next day, I realized I messed up and texted her saying something along the line “I’m really busy and if we could reschedule?”
Its been 3 days and I haven’t gotten a text back. Normally she would text me back whenever I text her on the same day...
But I haven’t gotten a reply back... I’m 100% she’s pissed that not only I said no but I embarrassed her in front of other ppl by rejecting her.
I’ve been thinking about her for the past few days. Not sure if I should call her up or tell her to give me a call so I can explain to her why I did what I did when she asked me to hang out. I’m really am busy, I wasn’t trying to reject her at all, but in her head she thinks I’m denying her..
What should I do guys? Thanks
Long story short, I took out a married woman to dinner 6-7 months ago. During this time,
She would come to my work and talk and play cards with other ppl at the table.
Well, last week she was at my table and everyone at the table was enjoying themselves talking and laughing and out of the blue she said she’s free this week and if I want to hang out? I replied back with a no without an explanation. I later realized I was being an *** and I may have embarrassed her in front of other ppl so I leaned close to her and said I’m busy this week cuz I have to do so n so. She nodded and said oh ok that’s fine n such. I didn’t want ppl to hear our convo and that we went out before so I quickly said no so she would drop the convo, but she must have thought I was being an ***..
Next day, I realized I messed up and texted her saying something along the line “I’m really busy and if we could reschedule?”
Its been 3 days and I haven’t gotten a text back. Normally she would text me back whenever I text her on the same day...
But I haven’t gotten a reply back... I’m 100% she’s pissed that not only I said no but I embarrassed her in front of other ppl by rejecting her.
I’ve been thinking about her for the past few days. Not sure if I should call her up or tell her to give me a call so I can explain to her why I did what I did when she asked me to hang out. I’m really am busy, I wasn’t trying to reject her at all, but in her head she thinks I’m denying her..
What should I do guys? Thanks