"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I’m a “brown” guy in Europe and I only get foreign girls

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I am in the EU right now, visiting, and notice that a lot of Middle Eastern and Arab guys have an insecurity about their race and try to pass as "Italian" ... Stop trying to pass as "Italian" and stop trying to win over white guys. Most white dudes these days are miserable themselves and borderline incels so they have no intention of helping others. Just focus on maximizing your value and giving it to the world.
The way to pass as an Italian is to pinch every blonde woman's a33 you see in the tourist areas. :eek: :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Or maybe shish kebab is a tastier way to prepare meat than in s schnitzel. Or maybe that Turkish women tend to be more feminine and passionate in general than German girls. Or...

Don't act like I'm giving out anecdotal experience as 'evidence'. I'm not here to prove that OP's quest is futile, but I'm relaying personal experience. And people can do with it what they want. For some people, even a ****ty schnitzel beats a shish kebab.
We are on opposite sides of the carnivore debate. I think shish kebab is the tastiest form of meat there is, with only a top loin steak being in the same league. Oh, a chilicheeseburger is up there too. :cool:
 

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Classic forbidden fruit syndrome. In the US normal white American women are basically a shoot in space for minorities except light skinned Hispanics. I couldn’t accept it like OP until I learned that the other fruit in the forest were easier and much tastier.
EthnicCelCope.
 

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This goes back to my point.

Ethnic bros, why not just go for brunettes?

1. They like you way more than blondes and redheads do.

2. Your life will be easier once you get with her.

3. They are better in bed.

4. Have her put on a blonde wig in the bedroom if you are that desperate.
There is something to be said that a natural brunette that is a bottle blonde will be more pliable than either a natural-natural brunette or a natural blonde, since her insecurity is exhibited by her bottle coloring. (I had read this somewhere, perhaps in this forum, LOL.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not Turkish or brown but still find it hard to date blonde German women; also due to their bland character and boring interests and conversational topics. They fit their German men, it is what it is. Leave the boring Germans be and find your own spice in life - it's what I'm doing and girls that aren't German work much better for me.
 
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