"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I’m a “brown” guy in Europe and I only get foreign girls

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I am in the EU right now, visiting, and notice that a lot of Middle Eastern and Arab guys have an insecurity about their race and try to pass as "Italian" ... Stop trying to pass as "Italian" and stop trying to win over white guys. Most white dudes these days are miserable themselves and borderline incels so they have no intention of helping others. Just focus on maximizing your value and giving it to the world.
The way to pass as an Italian is to pinch every blonde woman's a33 you see in the tourist areas. :eek: :cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Or maybe shish kebab is a tastier way to prepare meat than in s schnitzel. Or maybe that Turkish women tend to be more feminine and passionate in general than German girls. Or...

Don't act like I'm giving out anecdotal experience as 'evidence'. I'm not here to prove that OP's quest is futile, but I'm relaying personal experience. And people can do with it what they want. For some people, even a ****ty schnitzel beats a shish kebab.
We are on opposite sides of the carnivore debate. I think shish kebab is the tastiest form of meat there is, with only a top loin steak being in the same league. Oh, a chilicheeseburger is up there too. :cool:
 

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Classic forbidden fruit syndrome. In the US normal white American women are basically a shoot in space for minorities except light skinned Hispanics. I couldn’t accept it like OP until I learned that the other fruit in the forest were easier and much tastier.
EthnicCelCope.
 

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This goes back to my point.

Ethnic bros, why not just go for brunettes?

1. They like you way more than blondes and redheads do.

2. Your life will be easier once you get with her.

3. They are better in bed.

4. Have her put on a blonde wig in the bedroom if you are that desperate.
There is something to be said that a natural brunette that is a bottle blonde will be more pliable than either a natural-natural brunette or a natural blonde, since her insecurity is exhibited by her bottle coloring. (I had read this somewhere, perhaps in this forum, LOL.)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm not Turkish or brown but still find it hard to date blonde German women; also due to their bland character and boring interests and conversational topics. They fit their German men, it is what it is. Leave the boring Germans be and find your own spice in life - it's what I'm doing and girls that aren't German work much better for me.
 
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