"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hypothetical Scenario

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-You hit on the girl of your dreams over Facebook (because that's the only way you can)
-You ask for the phone number
-She resists
-You trash her boyfriend, call him a bastard, and say that you're much better than him
-She says you made her uncomfortable and then blocks you
-Boyfriend sends you a threatening message and then blocks you

Objective: Turn this into a win.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the fvck did you do?! Honestly, I'd say there's no coming back from this. You may want to be careful too. The boyfriend probably won't cause any trouble since he's just trying to intimidate you, but the girl could call the cops on harassment claims.
 
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In this hypothetical scenario, the girl and her boyfriend are both in a completely separate part of the country.
 
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You can't win , you messed up bad talking her bf/ex. If you were better , she should be the one to see it ..you can't force feed it to her. Just block/delete and forget it happened.
 
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Darth said:
-You hit on the girl of your dreams over Facebook (because that's the only way you can)
-You ask for the phone number
-She resists
-You trash her boyfriend, call him a bastard, and say that you're much better than him
-She says you made her uncomfortable and then blocks you
-Boyfriend sends you a threatening message and then blocks you

Objective: Turn this into a win.
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This is totally hilarious....

Okay... how to make this a win....... close your Facebook account.

NEVER ever again trash an ex-boyfriend. When you trash an ex or current BF you are directly attacking the woman's judgement. You might as well just call her a stupid cvnt b!tch.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Darth said:
Objective: Turn this into a win.
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Only way you can turn this into a win is to REALIZE that you should never do that again.

Agreed with what's been said here. You NEVER talk $hit about their current or past bf's, for many reasons. That's a chump beta orbiter move.
 
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Darth said:
-You hit on the girl of your dreams over Facebook (because that's the only way you can)
-You ask for the phone number
-She resists
-You trash her boyfriend, call him a bastard, and say that you're much better than him
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LOL. :crackup: That's the funniest thing I've heard all day. Come on bro, what did you expect her to say?

"Hi Rebecca, I've been thinking about you night and day. You are my angel, my one and only. I think I'm in love with you. Can I get your phone number?"
"I don't think that's such a good idea, I have a boyfriend"
"Your boyfriend is a piece a crap. He is a stupid bastard and I'm much better man than he will ever be."
"Oh yeah you're right. How could I been so blind and not realize he was such a jerk? How could I have not given to my basic instincts and go out with you? In fact, lets skip the chit chat and have sex at your house in 2 hours. Be ready I'm going to rock your world."

Honestly, how do you guys survive out there in real world?
 
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