"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hypnosis to assist DJ Empowerment

DarkLight

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Sup All!

Was wondering if any of the older DJ cats in here, have ever utilized professional hypnosis, for the sake of empowering your PUA/DJ path.....!?

Maybe re-conditioning your mind w. some new core beliefs more inlign w. DJ perspectives.
Or dealing w. issues (AFC/NiceGuy) type sh!t.

If so please share your experiences, and if any benefit?
I'm all for assisting my growth as a man, in the most powerful and efficient way possible, as every1 else.
So the power and value of hypnosis... def. came to mind, towards this end.

Any other comments... alls welcome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DarkLight said:
Sup All!

Was wondering if any of the older DJ cats in here, have ever utilized professional hypnosis, for the sake of empowering your PUA/DJ path.....!?

Maybe re-conditioning your mind w. some new core beliefs more inlign w. DJ perspectives.
Or dealing w. issues (AFC/NiceGuy) type sh!t.

If so please share your experiences, and if any benefit?
I'm all for assisting my growth as a man, in the most powerful and efficient way possible, as every1 else.
So the power and value of hypnosis... def. came to mind, towards this end.

Any other comments... alls welcome.

There is no "short cuts" when it comes to stuff like this.
 

Doggystyle

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Never used a professional but used a hypnosis CD, visualization is also useful

It doesn't work immediately but afer a month or so of continuous use it will help

Don't expect astronomical results, it will give you the nudge in the right direction, but everything is gained from experience and steping out your comfort zone.
 

ElChoclo

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No but I have used it for a GF, to assist her with achieving orgasm. It seemed highly effective but requires maintenance. You could use it for the purpose which you state, though I think if you wanted more immediate benefits you should start with specific behaviour as opposed to just core beliefs.
 

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Latinoman said:
There is no "short cuts" when it comes to stuff like this.
I agree. A DJs success is proportionate to the amount of authentic effort he puts into himself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DarkLight said:
Sup All!

Was wondering if any of the older DJ cats in here, have ever utilized professional hypnosis, for the sake of empowering your PUA/DJ path.....!?

Maybe re-conditioning your mind w. some new core beliefs more inlign w. DJ perspectives.
Or dealing w. issues (AFC/NiceGuy) type sh!t.
I once tried it to quit smoking! It didn't work. If it couldn't overcome my core resistance to change there I doubt it would affect the even more basic patterns of behavior that you are talking about.

I do find that it's great for pain management, Time management (I'm severely ADHD, I need all the help in that area I can get), and stress relief though!

In my opinion, a wingman with a cattle prod would be of more help conditioning you to behave in keeping with DJ techniques! You see the girl, you hesitate, he zaps! You'll be automatically approaching every attractive female you notice after about three sessions of that kind of conditioning!
 
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