"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hypnosis to assist DJ Empowerment

DarkLight

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Sup All!

Was wondering if any of the older DJ cats in here, have ever utilized professional hypnosis, for the sake of empowering your PUA/DJ path.....!?

Maybe re-conditioning your mind w. some new core beliefs more inlign w. DJ perspectives.
Or dealing w. issues (AFC/NiceGuy) type sh!t.

If so please share your experiences, and if any benefit?
I'm all for assisting my growth as a man, in the most powerful and efficient way possible, as every1 else.
So the power and value of hypnosis... def. came to mind, towards this end.

Any other comments... alls welcome.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Latinoman

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DarkLight said:
Sup All!

Was wondering if any of the older DJ cats in here, have ever utilized professional hypnosis, for the sake of empowering your PUA/DJ path.....!?

Maybe re-conditioning your mind w. some new core beliefs more inlign w. DJ perspectives.
Or dealing w. issues (AFC/NiceGuy) type sh!t.

If so please share your experiences, and if any benefit?
I'm all for assisting my growth as a man, in the most powerful and efficient way possible, as every1 else.
So the power and value of hypnosis... def. came to mind, towards this end.

Any other comments... alls welcome.

There is no "short cuts" when it comes to stuff like this.
 

Doggystyle

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Never used a professional but used a hypnosis CD, visualization is also useful

It doesn't work immediately but afer a month or so of continuous use it will help

Don't expect astronomical results, it will give you the nudge in the right direction, but everything is gained from experience and steping out your comfort zone.
 

ElChoclo

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No but I have used it for a GF, to assist her with achieving orgasm. It seemed highly effective but requires maintenance. You could use it for the purpose which you state, though I think if you wanted more immediate benefits you should start with specific behaviour as opposed to just core beliefs.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Latinoman said:
There is no "short cuts" when it comes to stuff like this.
I agree. A DJs success is proportionate to the amount of authentic effort he puts into himself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DarkLight said:
Sup All!

Was wondering if any of the older DJ cats in here, have ever utilized professional hypnosis, for the sake of empowering your PUA/DJ path.....!?

Maybe re-conditioning your mind w. some new core beliefs more inlign w. DJ perspectives.
Or dealing w. issues (AFC/NiceGuy) type sh!t.
I once tried it to quit smoking! It didn't work. If it couldn't overcome my core resistance to change there I doubt it would affect the even more basic patterns of behavior that you are talking about.

I do find that it's great for pain management, Time management (I'm severely ADHD, I need all the help in that area I can get), and stress relief though!

In my opinion, a wingman with a cattle prod would be of more help conditioning you to behave in keeping with DJ techniques! You see the girl, you hesitate, he zaps! You'll be automatically approaching every attractive female you notice after about three sessions of that kind of conditioning!
 
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