Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hypnosis? On you I mean. How effective is it?

IamtheAlphamale

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How effective is it to get hypnotised so that you can have more motivation doing something like quiting smoking?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its something you have to make a habit of. It is not some "miracle" brain changer like people make it out to be. Its subtle, but it does work. I've done lots of self hypnosis, and I have noticed its effects, if I do the same thing a bunch of times. There are downloadable Self hypnosis audio's online. Some are relatively cheap, around 10 bucks. Put your headphones on and lay on the couch, and listen. If your motivated enough to do it once a day for a couple weeks, you will notice it. If youre doing it to quit smoking, use it as a suppliment to whatever method you're using to quit.
I've never been to the "professionals" that claim you will never want another smoke again after one session, but I've heard it doesnt work that way. They charge 60$ and up for each session, but you can get a recorded version of the same session and do it yourself for far less money.
 

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Research it. For some people it does wonders. - I'm not one of those people.
 

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Yo so basically what your saying is.. I could record myself saying like.. "I am the prize, I am the great catch, She wants to have sex with me, she wants a relationship with me, I am motivated, I will achieve my goals and surpass my goals, I will make my dreams reality, I am the alpha male." And all I have to do is make this an audio clip and I will hypnotize myself?
 

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IamtheAlphamale said:
Yo so basically what your saying is.. I could record myself saying like.. "I am the prize, I am the great catch, She wants to have sex with me, she wants a relationship with me, I am motivated, I will achieve my goals and surpass my goals, I will make my dreams reality, I am the alpha male." And all I have to do is make this an audio clip and I will hypnotize myself?
It's a bit more complicated then that. Do some reasearch, there is a ton of material out there.

Personally, I don't like the whole self hypnosis b/c it often gives people an altered view of the world. You may start thinking you're the alpha male, but you still won't be acting like one... this will just lead to problems.

Use the brain you have, don't mess with it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dont forget that are are constantly being hypnotized by advertising, media. If you use hypnosis to up your self esteem, or think positive, boost confidence it can be a great tool. Basicly what we're all doing on this site is trying to beat stuff into our heads about facing fears, and not being wusses etc. All this info has to go through our concious mind, and hopefully embed itself into our subconcious. With hypnosis, information goes straight to the subconcious. What we're all trying to do here is change the way we think. Hypnosis is just a more direct way to do it. Like I said, its subtle. It takes 21 days to make or break a habit. If you do a "think positive" hypnosis every day for 21 days, you will be a WAY more positive person. Theres no way it can hurt you.
 
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